I am what I am!

All that is required of me is to live in my own authenticity

To embrace the version of myself that is crying out for expression

To step into the most expanded version of myself in any given moment

We only ever have this moment, who I was yesterday, and who I will be tomorrow, are not relevant - the only thing that matters is who I am NOW

Am I in this moment, the very best verson of myself available?

You may be wondering how you know which version you are.....

It's really very simple. 

How do you feel?

Do you feel fabulous, or do you feel down on yourself?

Even when we feel fabulous there are still new heights to reach for, but when we feel less than fabulous, we just have to remember to be kind to ourselves

We all have good days, and we all have not so good days, but on those 'less than' days, be kind to yourself, and remind yourself that tomorrow is another day. And when you go to bed at night, tell yourself that in the morning you will wake up once again as the sparkling, glittering, unicorn that you know yourself to be.

Today's troubles may have got your attention today, but they've had their time, and there is no place for them in your tomorrow

You got this!

Go be the magnificent creature that you were always meant to be!

XX

I've seen so many posts recently about toxic people and how to spot them.

But we all have toxic tendencies, every single one of us.

I'm quite a strong person, so I know what I want and for the most part I won't take other people's shit. 

And many people see those qualities as admirable. But those qualities also have the potential to be perceived as me being a self absorbed know it all.

But should I tone down who I am just because some people don't like it or can't deal with it?

Absolutely not!

None of us are perfect, not a single one of us, and feel free to correct me on that point.

Instead of pointing out the flaws of others, and trying to hold them accountable for their flaws, perhaps, just perhaps, it's time we started working on ourselves, because I promise you, when we start working on improving ourselves, what other people are or aren't doing, is not an issue.

We won't label or judge because we won't care. 

When we begin to hold ourselves accountable for what is going on in our life, and take responsibility for our own choices, then we are free from what we perceive to be the influence of other people. No-one can can hold anything over us, unless we allow them to.

Don't get me wrong, the inner work is not a five minute job, it's a life long process. But perhaps with a New Year just around the corner, now is as good a time as any to start xx